Cold...

So here's the thing...i've come to realise lately that to other people (those that i don't know very well or i don't even know at all) may think of me as cold and that i think too good of myself...man...i've been a little bit paranoid after this thought suddenly popped into my mind one day after work...i've noticed this at work mainly because i appear so antisocial...i mean, people ask me crap about myself and i reply their questions in like one sentence...or maybe even less than that...seriously i have like a problem or something...for one, i can't strike up a conversation with people i'm not close with...the other thing is even if they ask me something i tend to give the crappiest answer...i'm actually quite shy...i think that the reason i appear cold is because of my shyness...i mean, to those who are close to me i talk like there's no tomorrow but when i meet new people i tend to shut up...and i guess that my shyness somehow reflects into other's eyes as i'm stuckup...i know that nowadays people (girls quite frequently) seem to judge others really easily...i know i do that...but then again...i prove myself wrong sometimes when i finally get a chance to talk to that person and find out that they nothing like i thought they were...i guess people are judged by their appearance mainly and also the way they hold themselves...man...i dont get it...i really do have some sort of social problem...i think thats the main reason why things fall apart for me...